Anyone who has followed my blog for a while will know my favourite actor is Ben Whishaw. It's an admiration of talent pure and simple, I may not always like the play (or film) he chooses but he never disappoints in what he brings to his roles.

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Ben Whishaw in Bakkhai at Almeida Theatre. Photo: Marc Brenner

I'm always excited about his next project and ever hopeful that he treads the boards again.

It wouldn't be a theatre blog birthday celebration without reminiscing about some of my favourite Ben Whishaw performances…and encounters.

I don't stage door, apart from that one time in New York but our paths have crossed a few times. I've only spoken to him once (New York), the whole speaking to celebs thing makes me cringe, besides I'd only make a tit of myself and say something stupid which would haunt me.

(PS there is a bit of cheating in this list because some of these pre-date Rev Stan's Theatre Blog but if I make the rules, I can break them 😉)

The watch incident (Leaves of Glass, Soho Theatre, review from my old blog)

Mr Whishaw first came to my attention on the big screen in the film Perfume but it was around the same time I had started going to the theatre again.

I saw that he was in a play at the Soho Theatre and was curious to see him on stage.

A week or two earlier I'd been at the Soho Theatre seeing some comedy with an ex and passed him on the stairs but it was when watching the play that 'it' happened.

I was sat on the front row and during the play, there was a fight – a sort of scuffle/grappling sort of fight – during which Ben's watch flew off and hit me on the foot.

Did I return it? Yes, of course, because I'm the person who'd get tapped on the shoulder as I walked.  The usher did look a little bemused as I handed it back explaining where it had come from.

Fellow audience member #1

I normally sit in the stalls at the Donmar but I ended up in the circle for Polar Bears when I swapped tickets with my boss who couldn't make the date he'd booked.

My kindness was rewarded because who should be sitting right in front of me?

Fellow audience member #2

You know when someone in the middle of the row behind you arrives last minute and everyone has to stand up to let them in? Guess who? Yep, Mr Whishaw and he managed to drag his leather jacket, which was draped over his arm, across my head before taking his seat right behind me.

It was Last of the Duchess at the Hampstead Theatre and a bit of a thespy night overall. He was with Romola Garai and they were watching fellow The Hour cast member Anna Chancellor who was in the play, I think Joshua Maguire was there too. 

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Psycho Baby in Mojo, Harold Pinter Theatre

Mojo has appeared on a few of my lists already and if I had to choose just one stage role of Ben's, it would be Baby.

This was a really messed up character. Free-wheeling with both a magnetic abandonment but also liable to turn nasty at a blink. And yet the more you learn about Baby the more you can understand and he becomes quietly tragic even if he isn't wholly likeable. 

It was a lovely contrast to his previous stage role, Peter in Peter and Alice and good to see him not playing 'nice'.

God-like in Bakkhai, Almeida

I know people who hated the play and I must confess I struggled with the chorus, but I absolutely loved Ben's portrayal of Dionysus. This was how I described him in my review:

When Dionysos is around everything is sexually charged, everything is charged with energy, a raw earthiness. Even the silences are charged such is the skill of our two leads.

Just reading that takes me back.

Cock, Royal Court (review from my old blog)

This play holds a special place in my memories for several reasons.

It wasn't just Ben, the play and his performance but it was seeing him alongside Andrew Scott and Katherine Parkinson.

Then there was the seating arranged as if around a pit to watch a fight. The stage was small and the space so intimate in my review I said you almost dare not breath for causing a disturbance.

The actors would sometimes sit among the audience and yes I happened to be sitting in the right spot. 

Cock was also the first thing I went to see with PolyG. Via Twitter we realised we were going to the same performance so decided to meet up and have been theatre buddies and firm friends since.

At the performance we saw, there was a post-show Q&A. Ben was painfully shy back then and looked really nervous throughout, twiddling his hair and looking at his lap.

Such a contrast to the performance he'd just given – but that's acting.

Rufus Wainwright was in the audience that night too and asked a question. Well, it was more of a long gush about the play but…

Pride Lucille Lortell theatre poster

Pride poster

 

The Pride, Lucille Lortel…and the New York encounter

I was fresh out of a long-term relationship when it was announced that Ben was going to be making his Broadway debut alongside another favourite actor of mine, Andrea Riseborough. I'd never been to New York and being footloose and fancy-free I organised a solo trip.

Now the play is superb, an exploration of love and gay relationships in two very different time periods but it was while on the other side of the Atlantic I decided to break my stage door/talking to actors rule.

You can find the full story and review by following the link above but the crux of it is that I shouted at Ben Whishaw in the street. Kinda.

A few of us had waited in the cold for him to appear after the play and he tried to sneak off up the street so I called after him.

Bless him he did come back and was very polite and sweet and I'd like to say we had a lovely chat but we didn't because I was terrified of saying something stupid and regretting it.

Ben Whishaw Against

And the most disappointing role…because I don't have rose-tinted spectacles

When Ben was cast as the lead in Against at the Almeida, I thought as he was playing a billionaire the character would have a big ego and be quite arrogant, how else do you get to be a billionaire so young?

But Luke wasn't. I in part blame the play for making the character too nice. I had tickets to see it more than once and I gave them up.

I think my review was kinder than I felt, in part because I wanted it to be better.

There are a few fellow Ben Whishaw fans out there so which is your favourite performance?

 

 

 

 

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4 responses to “10th birthday list: Favourite Ben Whishaw stage performances… and encounters”

  1. Jauntystreams avatar
    Jauntystreams

    As I have only seen one BW play (due to living in Australia) I can only nominate Peter and Alice. I had decided that as he was unlikely to ever do a play in Australia, I had to go to London. After I booked my seat I became paranoid he would be sick and I would get the understudy. This made me book another night as well (he was well both times).
    I spoke to him after and wanted to say something meaningful. So I told him how interesting his interviews were and how they showed what a deep thinker he was.
    He replied very slowly “Aw, thank you, thank you very much”.
    It was lovely that he lingered awhile & didn’t rush away.

  2. Becky Kornegay avatar
    Becky Kornegay

    I really enjoyed this. You make me wonder, and I hope it’s not rude, did you perhaps call out to BW because you were in New York, not at home? When I’m in London, where I travel solo, I sometimes think I’m a slightly different person from when I’m home. Free, in a good way, I hope, and not obnoxious to others. I do go to the stage door, partly because the trip costs enough that I squeeze out every theater moment I can. And because it’s fascinating to watch people, actors and fans. I occasionally say thank you to an actor, no autograph request: my rule. That is what I believe brought me an “in your eye” look from Dame Judi. She broke off from signing Bond photos, one after another, and looked straight at me. Happy Birthday, yours, I assume, and not the blog’s.

  3. Carolyn avatar
    Carolyn

    Only just read this. My favourite Ben stage role I’ve seen live was Peter & Alice. I know it’s very traditional-Ben, but it was a very magical and beautiful play. I wish I had written about it as you do so I could say more about why it stays with me as my favourite. I also often reflect on baby Olly Alexander who was such a perfect Peter Pan and will remain Peter Pan always to me! I went to see Peter and Alice with a friend who was terrified of Judi Dench and after it she made me watch Notes on a Scandal with her, so I could be terrified of Judi too, haha!
    I do feel (and currently especially, hope!) I have yet to see my favourite Ben stage role though! My favourite Ben screen role is easily Richard II & I await the day I get to experience a Ben stage role that surpasses that! Even though I can never imagine going to live theatre again right now to be honest.
    I also adored Bakkhai (including the chorus! I loved their music) & Ben in it, though I actually preferred Bertie to Ben in that play. They were both brilliant though – it isn’t like I hugely loved one and not the other. Just that Bertie’s characters Bakkhai were the ones who made me feel more and Agave was who I cried for. I guess the nature of Dionysus was not to achieve empathy from the audience though. It’s kind of the whole point that Gods are different to Men. What a joy that play was though – two of my favourite actors being brilliant and the chemistry, wow… and fascinating and powerful music to boot. I miss Bakkhai.
    I love Ben in evil roles too – Perfume was the first thing I saw him in as well (on DVD not in a cinema, so later.) However, maybe that was part of the reason I wasn’t as big a fan as most people of Ben in Mojo? Perhaps I wanted him to be completely unlikable? (I used to have this thing about saying I would never love any actor’s work until I had seen them pay a role where they could let themselves be completely unlikable to the audience. Now I think that’s rather a teenaged unbending viewpoint, but I still believe there is some truth in there.) Or maybe not – maybe I wanted to feel for Baby more? I honestly can’t remember. I don’t remember much about Mojo now except that my favourite actor in that play was Colin Morgan and I was somewhat surprised by the fact because he was also the only actor I had no idea who he was before seeing him in that play. Maybe I’ve just contradicted myself as Skinny was a very tragic character and was that why he was my favourite in that play?
    Cock was the first Ben-play I saw (so just before then would be when I saw Perfume and that film wowed me so much it got me to discover and book this when I had absolutely never been to anything of the like before) and not only that, but the first London-play and the first real-play (barring Panto/musicals where I live) I ever saw. I stayed with a friend (who didn’t go to the play with me) and her family and my friend’s Mum mentioned after I said where I was going that she would have liked to have seen the play. I went alone though and I was so scared that when I entered the Royal Court and collected my ticket, the lady on the till asked which play I was there to see so she could tell me where to go and I couldn’t say the RUDE word “Cock” so I just stood there for several minutes in silence, unable to speak until in the end the lady had to say “Is it Cock?” to help me out. It’s also strange I suppose to think I had absolutely no idea who Andrew Scott was when I saw that play. I did know Katherine from the I.T. Crowd. What an odd first play – being so close to the actors. I was quite late by the time I plucked up courage to enter the room and so I was sat on the front row and I remember trying to pull my toes in, afraid the actors might trip over me and that crazy sensation of experiencing acting happening so close to you that you can see every tiny nuance of expression, like you might in a film. It felt dangerous to breathe. Again, I don’t recall too much about the play itself. Only that afterwards, I imagined myself in a bubble that I didn’t want anyone or any thing to pierce. Like the play and the experience had created a bubble around me and I didn’t want anything to break that and send me back to reality. Though it would be years later that I would seriously start theatre-going, I still think there was something about the intensity of that first experience that I seek and crave from theatre. Talking of meeting actors, I sometimes wonder what might have happened had I tried to meet Ben after Cock, back in the days he was relatively unknown. But let’s be honest – that would not only have been his literals nightmare back then, it would also have been mine, and I was definitely way more terrified a kid than even he, so that was never going to happen! I remember it being a very bizarre night because part of the reason my friend didn’t come to the play with me was that she was going to her friend’s (18th????) birthday party. So after the play, I had to go straight on from that magical bubble world and meet them all in some kind of club or something, but I was still trapped in this delicate play and it was the most jarring thing ever.
    Against is also the only Ben play I saw I really disliked. I only started proper theatre-going around Bakkhai time. I actually saw Against 3 times and had tickets to see it twice more. The first time I didn’t like it, but thought maybe it’d be one of those plays you had to watch twice before you felt something. The second time I realised that wasn’t the case and I liked it even less. The third time I hated it so much I actually cried during the play, being in the room was so unbearable to me and I was so sad. I have to say, that is the only time I have been driven to tears during a play merely due to how much I was hating being there. I then returned my final two tickets (which never got refunded and I don’t care.)
    I did eventually meet Ben too. It was after Bakkhai which I saw a few times, but I waited till the penultimate night of the show. A gaggle of people crowded around Ben. I was still scared, so was at the back. Ben signed stuff for people & chatted with some. Eventually it was my turn. There were only two of us left. He let me walk over, then distractedly said “I’ve just got to go & chat to my friend, I’ll be back in a minute!” Of course! I replied. Off he went. We waited in the Almeida foyer where we were for maybe another half an hour and he never came back! hahaha. The security man witnessed what happened and took such pity on us that he told us to come back the next day and he’d make sure Ben signed something for us/met us. Funny to think on Cock-Ben and the shy, feverous person he was then. I now find him very much in control and in fact pretty intimidating! I don’t know whether he is that way or whether it’s due to my only actual Ben encounter being when he literally abandoned me, hahaha! And worse – announced his abandonment like he would return! (I did go back the next day, but it was the last night and there were a crazy number of people there. But I did get an autograph photo – literally only as that security man was as good as his word and shoved me into Ben with instructions to Ben to make sure it happened. It wasn’t exactly the meet of dreams, but I too was glad that at least I had no chance to say anything idiotic.)
    I had an outside theatre Ben-encounter once too. It was early on – I could not be certain if it was Peter and Alice or Mojo time, but I was walking down Regent Street one rainy day and Ben was walking the other way, straight past me. He was wearing a navy blue duffle coat. A bit like Paddington, I suppose. But that was before Paddington wasn’t it? His head was down like he was maybe thinking DO NOT SPEAK TO ME ANYBODY and it was obviously all very fast. We were going in opposite directions after all. I obviously did not stop him on the street, so that’s the start and end of that story. I walked past Ben in the rain. Fascinating.
    Wow. This was long. And I didn’t even mention Julius Caesar or Ben’s Oscar Wilde reading! But I really do long for the perfect Ben-play. I definitely don’t think he’s been in the most magical thing he ever will and that’s really exciting to reflect on. I hope this at least!

  4. Rev Stan avatar

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the performances you’ve seen. I’m like you, still waiting for that perfect role. I’m curious to see what he’s going to be like in Fargo when we finally get to see it as that series can be quite dark.

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